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Children And Dogs:
Important Information For Parents
Living with a dog can be beneficial to children. Dogs can enhance
children’s self-esteem, teach them responsibility and help them to learn
empathy. However, children and dogs may not always automatically start
off with a wonderful relationship. Parents must be willing to teach the
dog and the child acceptable limits of behavior in order to make their
interactions pleasant and safe.
Selecting A Dog
What age is best? Many people have a warm and fuzzy image of a puppy and
a child growing up together. If you have a young child and are thinking
of adopting a puppy (less than 1 year old), there are a few things you
need to consider.
• Time and energy: Puppies require a lot of time, patience, training and
supervision. They also require socialization in order to become
well-adjusted adult dogs. This means they need to be taken places and
exposed to new things and new people. If you have a young child who
already requires a lot of
care and time, you should ask yourself if you will you have enough time
to care for a puppy as well.
• Safety: Puppies, because they’re babies, are fragile creatures. A
puppy may become frightened, or even injured, by a well-meaning, curious
child who wants to constantly pick him up, hug him or explore his body
by pulling on his tail or ears.
• Rough play: Puppies have sharp teeth and claws with which they may
inadvertently injure a small child. Puppies also tend to jump up on
small children and knock them down. All interactions between your child
and puppy will need to be closely supervised in order to minimize the
chances of injuries.
• Advantages of getting an adult dog: Adult dogs require less time and
attention once they’ve adjusted to your family and household routine,
although you’ll still need to spend time helping your new dog with the
transition to his new home. You can better gauge how hardy and tolerant
an adult dog will be of a child’s enthusiasm and you can work with your
local animal shelter to adopt a dog that has previously lived with
children.
As a general rule, if your child is under 6 years old, it’s best to
adopt a dog that’s over 2 years old. Although puppies can be a lot of
fun, and it’s exciting and rewarding to help them grow into wonderful
companions, they do require significantly more time to train and
supervise than an adult dog.
What breed is best?
• Size: Very small breeds of dogs, such as toy poodles or Chihuahuas,
may not be good choices for a young child. These dogs are fragile and
may become easily injured when around rambunctious children. They also
tend to be more easily frightened by a lot of activity and noise.
Frightened dogs may
snap or bite in order to protect themselves. Larger dogs or sturdier
small breeds, like pugs or beagles, are often better able to tolerate
the activity, noise and rough play that is an inevitable part of living
with children.
• Breed type: Some of the sporting breeds, such as labradors and golden
retrievers, can make good pets for families with children. Breeds that
have been selected for protective behavior, such as Chows and
Rottweilers, are not usually recommended. It’s sometimes difficult for
this type of dog to comfortably tolerate the many comings and goings of
children and their friends who may be perceived as territorial
intruders. Herding breeds, such as border collies and shepherds, are
inclined to “herd” children, chasing and nipping at their heels.
• Temperament: While generalizations can be made about specific dog
breeds, it is just as important to consider a dog’s individual
temperament. A dog’s personality is shaped by both past experiences and
genetics.
Who will care for the dog?
It’s unrealistic to expect a child, regardless of age, to have sole
responsibility of caring for a dog. Dogs need basic things like food,
water and shelter, but they also need to be played with, exercised and
trained on a consistent basis. Teaching a dog the rules of the house and
helping him become a good companion is too overwhelming for a young
child. While responsible teenagers may be up to the task, they may not
be willing to spend an adequate amount of time with the dog, as their
desire to be with their friends usually takes over at this age. If
you’re adopting a dog “for the kids,” you must be prepared and willing
to be the dog’s primary caretaker.
Starting Off Right
Below are some guidelines to help you start off on the right foot.
Remember, children should never be left
alone with a dog or puppy without adult supervision.
Holding:
• It's safest for both your child and puppy if your child is sitting
down whenever he wants to hold the puppy. Puppies are squirmy and wiggly
and may easily fall out of a young child's arms and be injured. If held
insecurely, a puppy may become frightened and snap or nip in response.
• Have your child offer the puppy a toy to chew while being petted. When
puppies are teething, they tend to chew on everything, including hands
and arms, so having a chew toy handy will divert the puppy’s teeth away
from your child. An added benefit is that the puppy will come to
associate
pleasant consequences (getting a treat) with being held by your child.
• For larger dogs, have your child sit in your lap and let the dog
approach both of you. This way you can control your child and not allow
him to get carried away with pats that are too rough. You are also there
to teach your new dog to treat your child gently.
Petting and giving affection: Children often want to hug dogs
around the neck. Your dog may view this as a threatening gesture, rather
than an affectionate one, and may react with a growl, snap or bite. You
should teach your child to pet your dog from underneath the dog’s chin,
rather than hugging him or reaching over his head. You should also teach
your child to avoid staring at, or looking directly into, your dog’s
eyes.
Giving Treats: Children tend to become somewhat fearful and
anxious when a dog tries to take a treat from their hand. This causes
them to jerk their hand away at the last second. The dog may then jump
up or lunge to get the treat, which may result in the child being
knocked down. Have your child place the treat in an open palm, rather
than holding it in his fingers. You may want to place a hand underneath
your child's hand to help guide him.
Supervising Play: Children run with quick, jerky movements and
have high-pitched voices. These actions are highly stimulating to a dog.
Consequently, your dog may respond by chasing or jumping up on your
child. Encourage your child to play quietly around the new dog until
both become more comfortable with each other. Your dog also needs to
learn which behaviors are appropriate and which are not. Our handout
“Dealing with Normal Puppy Behavior: Nipping and Rough Play” outlines
procedures for discouraging rough play and encouraging appropriate play.
However, most children under the age of 10 are not capable of carrying
out these procedures, so it’s helpful to teach your dog a “leave it”
command that you can use when play gets too rough. Taking an obedience
class together is a good way to teach your dog to respond to commands.
Punishing your dog for inappropriate behavior will not help. If he
learns that being around children always results in “bad things”
happening to him, he may become defensive in their presence.
Possessions: Your dog won’t know the difference between his toys
and your child’s toys until you teach him.
• Your child must take responsibility for keeping his playthings out of
your dog’s reach.
• If, and only if, you catch your dog chewing on something he shouldn't,
interrupt the behavior with aloud noise, then give him an acceptable
chew toy and praise him lavishly when he takes the toy in his mouth.
• Don't give your dog objects to play with that could cause confusion,
such as old socks, old shoes or old children's toys that closely
resemble items that are off limits. He can't tell the difference!
• Dogs can be possessive about their food, toys and space. Although it’s
normal for a dog to growl or snap to protect these items, it’s not
acceptable. At the same time, children need to learn to respect their
dog as a living creature who is not to be teased or purposefully hurt
and who needs time to
himself.
If your dog is growling or snapping at your child for any reason, the
situation needs IMMEDIATE attention. Punishing your dog is likely to
make matters worse. Please refer to our sheet on “When the Behavior
Helpline Can’t Help” for information on where to get further assistance
and guidance in this matter.
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